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Clearwater, Florida; a home from home that I have grown up in for over twenty five years and am full of memories. Some happy, some sad; mostly of being bored when I was a kid. As time as gone on it has become a place of comfort. An escape from the City and a place to recharge.
It’s a place of solitude. You can get nowhere easily without a car, perhaps a bike if you are lucky. Forget walking to a local shop – are you mad? There is no local shop. There’s a beach with rows of Condos (expensive blocks of flats to us) or houses on the sea. And I was lucky enough to be in a house on a sea to witness the sea safari.
To be in a dwelling on the sea with only a murmur of cars behind you is a grounding experience. I arrived exhausted from the energy of the city and I knew I had minimal time to rest. Is it not ridiculous that life can be so hectic in the city even for someone without children that they feel so ill they have to rest? I’d over eaten and over drunk for months. Well that didn’t stop in Florida but the food was at least healthier and the booze less. I blame all that sea air for having to go to bed before 10pm.
During some time with family that reside there I got to see a strange experience for a person who has no children, which was babies learning to swim. My niece of 18 months was going for swimming lessons and I was impressed by her ability to actually swim albeit a panicked tiny amount but still it was impressive. Unfortunately I was distracted by the other half of the pool containing some pensioners doing a class of swim aerobics. I couldn’t help but notice how full of non movement their class was. If anything they just seemed to be still in a circle and not really treading water at all but then why should I have been surprised? The guy taking the class was bigger than all of them. How could they have a sense of hope looking at him?
So not much to report on the first few days, except relaxation and watching the dolphins swim by morning and eve. A baby turtle even popped by to say hello. A dead seahorse had been discarded on the dock but that wasn’t as much of a shock as the giant dead fish in the pool that some Pelican had had enough of.
It’s hot in Florida the sunshine state; too hot for someone as fair skinned as myself to enjoy but I got out there and soaked up the Vitamin D. I don’t think my body had seen the sunshine due to the UK’s miserable weather from the summer before.
I ate seafood galore (although the lobster was from South Africa which I think might ruin the local seafood idea a tad) and enjoyed the stillness. On my last day at the house, I threw my bread to the fish (always one to give back to nature even if it was garlic bread), and then panicked as a sea of crust lay atop the waves and started to roll towards the neighbours. I thought fish ate bread? I would be forever known as the polluter or poisoner of wildlife. Well I didn’t have to worry because after not so long the birds like a Hitchcock movie came pelting down. Problem solved. If the birds died it would be nowhere near me.
It was farewell to the Sunshine State and onwards to New York City.
Life is short
Today our caretaker at work suddenly died. Bob was a smiley fellow in his sixties. Slim frame, smoker’s gentle London voice and smoker’s lungs. Slim and cheery, always so cheery. He was someone who had become part of my every day am. I park my car and there he would be, popping out to say ‘morning’ from his underground office or in the lobby and a comment about another day in the rat race and a chuckle. That was 9am this morning. At three pm someone came into me to say he had been found dead in his office.
Already this week my family have been in remembrance of my Uncle who passed away a year ago on the 19th May. His wife had fallen seriously ill and was in intensive care in hospital. The panic and shock and unhealthy life style he had led took it’s toll and he died of a heart attack; A broken heart. She made it through to find him not there…
It’s also the remembrance of my granddad Alf. The blond curtain haired cheeky chappy that I was so close to through all my years. He is the one who used to sit with me as a child playing a word game. He would say to me ‘Think of as many words as you can beginning with the letter G’ and being about seven or eight years old I would sit and concentrate for what felt like an hour. I’d have a list of about ten words. If we had the same word we’d cross them off and the winner would be whom had the most left. It took me years to work out that he had always been reading my words and putting less than me so that I would win but learn also.
Grandad was a religious man who never went to church. A solitary man who married once and then was never connected to anyone else although we were always suspicious that he liked the lady in the local launderette. He had watched every nature programme on television. He saturated the meat in too much fat. When he cooked for my friend and I and I told him my friend was vegetarian, grandad panicked and said ‘but kid what does he eat?’ My friend ended up with a big plate of cabbage.
He snored like no other and when I was age seven I used to have the top bunk of bunk beds and him the bottom and I’d fallen asleep on an old style cassette recorder where I had tried to tape the evidence of the snoring. Everyone knew though. You could hear him from down the street. Grandad who started crying when I cried at the monkey’s dying in the film Project X, because he didn’t want me to be upset. Grandad who laughed the loudest when we did impressions of him. Grandad who listened to every thought I had like it was the most important thing he could have ever heard. He loved us all so much and we loved him. He really was the best Grandad a girl could have wanted.
So in remembrance my little blog a reminder that all we have is the here and now and it is a waste to not live life for the moment. And a glass raised to Bob, John and Grandad Alf. Rest in Peace.




